The title of my brother, John's, last post, is painfully ironic (Okay, okay, I give in!!!). It is with deep sadness and regret that I have to tell you that John (jonny5) gave up his long battle with illness the afternoon of Sunday 4th May 2008.

As he always suspected, an infection quickly took hold and within 16 hours of being admitted to hospital, he passed away peacefully, surrounded by all his family and friends. He was conscious until the last few hours and was fully aware of what was about to happen. He calmly said his goodbyes to those he loved and kept his unique sense of humour until the last, joking with me that he was being a naughty boy by leaving us.

I'm sure he would want me to pass on his thanks to the army of nurses who looked after him during the last 4 or 5 years, as well as his friends in this virtual world created online. Those healthcare workers who helped brighten his life and showed care and compassion, you know who you are, we all thank you. Writing this blog was such a joy for John - almost like a special unique form of therapy. And I know he truly appreciated the comments left by his fellow bloggers.

As it should be, I will leave the final word with John. This morning, John's wife, Jude, asked me to look at his laptop to search for some documents. On the desktop, there is a folder with some instructions for his family, with the following quote...

"I am ready to meet my maker, but whether my maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter. Sir Winston Churchill."



Little Sis
(Ruth)